Sunday, May 23, 2010

Really? I mean Really!

So here's the latest in the PB saga.

Last week he texts me on Monday around 3:30 or so in the afternoon. He wrote,"do you have plans for tonight?" I replied that normally I play volleyball but since I was still nursing my hurt foot, I was going to stay off the court for the evening so I had nothing planned. He wrote back asking if I wanted to get together. I said sure, "what do you have in mind?" He replied (and I'm sure you can guess it, if you've been following his normal behavior pattern) "nothing yet, but i guess it would have to be sedentary (lol). Is there a movie you want to see?" I wrote back that I hadn't seen Iron Man 2 yet. His reply, "I haven't seen 1 or 2."

So now we take a pause....really? what was he trying to communicate to me here? That since he hadn't seen the first one, he didn't want to see the second one? That since he hadn't seen the second one, that would work? What should my reply be? "Do you still want to see it?" Did he expect me to tell him all the places it was playing? Was he expecting me to offer up another movie?

Any way, I didn't reply. Someone came into my office, interupted me and I forgot the whole conversation. Later, when I was home, I realized that he never elaborated. I finally got a text from him at 7:30 that said, "hello?" I mean seriously, what did he expect? Does he really expect me to believe he is the least bit interested in me? I don't get it. He is good looking, but not the type of guy that I'd expect women to fawn over and jump when he suggests getting together. Why is there such a lack of effort on his part and does he seriously think I'm going to pick up his slack? Ha! I'm not even sure why he bothers to keep asking me out.

The next day he asks if we wanted to get together. I had other plans, so I said no. On Thursday, he emails to let me know he is going out of town for the weekend and wanted to know if we could do something this week. I'm headed out of town so I told him that won't work for me.

I'm not sure why I don't just tell him not to bother to call any more. I guess because really he isn't too annoying and at least we have a good time when we get together. And maybe, because I can't figure him out, I'm just a bit intrigued by him. But, really, not that interested.

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