i'm really sorry about how difficult this relationship is. you definitely deserve to have everything you want in a companion. you're a terrific person with so many great qualities, and i really want things to work out for your happiness. seriously, i don't understand why some people seem to have no problems finding somebody special while even more terrific people have to go through a bunch of bullcrap. if he doesn't understand what he might lose out on, he's an idiot or he's all jacked up emotionally.
If that is it though – he’s an idiot – to think of giving up a beautiful person like you in one’s life just to not have to share the remote, change the thermostat, or the time one showers in the morning… that’s just being selfish and spoiled. I’m sorry hon, I’m sure you don’t want to hear/read my railing on the guy. I’m hoping things turn out well my dear
aww, c. i'm sooooo sorry. i just wanna die for you too!
Oh honey - you are loved and cared for by friends who wish they could take the hurt away. Anger on your behalf is boiling. Prayers for comfort on your behalf are being sent.
Oh Honey, what's up with that? I'm sorry I wish there was something I could do to make you feel better...make sure you plan to come to my farewell party on 9 Jan... (and anyone else who wants to come is also invited...)...
I’m so sorry – are you ok?????? I hate thinking about what you are going through . . .
Oh no... I was thinking that everything seems so right... after all theseyears, you guys were be together... I can hit my hubby since I can't slug PJ.
C– I log into FB every day – only because of you… you make me smile EVERY day. Have you ever considered writing for a living? I am in a mode of only reading books about 40 somethings ( and Dan Brown), and I constantly thinking that if you had written it, it would be funnier, Current book is :The Men I Didn’t Marry” by Janice Kaplan & Lynn Schnurnberger. Read it – you can write better than this! I doubt PJ is over you…. If not 40’s; 50’s or 60’s… Believe me – I was there in the 20’s… you have a supporter!
Oh girl, I'm so sorry to hear that. I hate to hear that your heart is broken, and I send you huge hugs. I'm proud of you for taking the chance to see where it might go, though...it totally sucks that it didn't work out. You are not a freak - you're normal like the rest of us - just trying to figure out an unpredictable world. Have faith, and don't give up. You're too special for God not to have a perfect plan in mind for you.
I hope that you are finding enough things to do to keep your brain going in a positive direction, bit by tiny bit. That is always so important, at least for me, so that it doesn't slip into what I call the "black hole" of emotions, where it is always so hard to climb back out. Tomorrow should be pretty when we wake up and the snow is still around!'
Geeez, it really hurts to see you go through this. I think you are a WONDERFUL woman, and any guy would be crazy to not want you - I told you that before (when you "dumped" me, LOL, or whatever you want to call that). Give him some time, and some space, and if he's worth it for you, he'd be crazy to let you get away. Seriously. In fact, I have half a mind to email him myself and tell him he's being an idiot. (but I won't, don't worry)
But anyway... damn, C, I've been through that too, so I think I do know how you feel: been there myself, and I know the hurt - intimately (unfortunately, I think I've been on both ends of that - and it hurts from the other end too, for what it's worth). I really really really feel for you. Sending you lots positive feelings, and hugs, and HOPE. Never lose that hope. You're wonderful, and things WILL come together for you. I believe in that.
oh Darlin... I am so sorry. I'm trying awful hard not to hate my life right now too. But, losing someone you love is the worst thing ever. Bleh!!!
I am so sorry. My heart is truly breaking for you. Come hang out with me sometime. We love you!
Now, if I can just start to believe half of what my friends have told me and drag myself out of this funk and get back to the place I was before PJ came back into my life.
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