Sad but True

I hate to admit it but I think it is already falling apart with PG. He is starting to annoy me. It's little things too...which make me think there is something seriously wrong with me. I feel like Seinfeld...wasn't that his MO...I didn't watch the show. But, if I recall one of the five episodes I did see, they remarked on how he could pick the littlest thing out about a woman to make him drop her. That's how I fell. So what is it that is bugging me...

He seems clueless often. Either his is passive agreesive or just forgets things. He doesn't listen (which could contribute to points 1 and 2).

Let's start with passive agressive or forgetful. This past weekend I told him I had plans most of the weekend. I actually told him of all the plans. But then on Friday morning, he texts. I mention in my text I am going to Black Friday Turkey day at my gf's place. He then writes, "oh, I didn't realize you were busy." What? I told you this. Okay, so perhaps he forgot. But Saturday is the clencher because I distinctly recall, as I was shopping in the grocery store for cupcake ingredients, I told you that I was going to a party on Saturday. I even said, if you want me to go with you, I will cancel the party but I need to know by Friday (it's rude to ditch friends day of party when you are signed up to bring food!). So then on Saturday, he wants to come up for lunch...he asks at 2 p.m. Okay, still have time to make food and get to party....except he doesn't make it up til 3 p.m. Not too bad because he lives 1/2 hour away. But then...his son isn't hungry so instead, we go shopping. I fucking hate shopping and he knows this! Shopping on Saturday after Black Friday is the 2nd worst day of the year to take me shopping. I don't want to fucking shop! They just needed to stop in and pick something up. About an hour later we leave the store for lunch... 4 p.m. lunch! Now, I do eat lunch late on Saturdays but still. On the way back to my place he asks if I want to hang with him and his son that night. WTF I mean WTF!!!! I told him I was busy. Just get me back home so I can cook and get to the party at a reasonable time! So seriously, he forgot my plans on both Friday and Saturday or he just plain didn't care and tried to sabbotage them.

Then, last night, I was talking to him. I tell him I was on the way back from the movies. I tell him the name of the movie (Tangled!- love kid's movies) and a quick synopsis..to which he quickly replies..."oh yeah." Which to me means, "I know what movie you are talking about." Then later in the conversation, he asks, "how was the movie." I tell him good, if you like disney princess movies. He asks, "what movie did you go see?" I repeat what I told him earlier and he says, "Oh, I never heard of it." Again, WTF! The same conversation we were talking about my friend buying a real tree. But, they wanted a fake one but all fake ones were pre-lit. Since I wanted a new pre-lit tree, they said I should give them mine. I told him how it was old and I wasn't sure they'd want it. He mentions how he'd want a pre-lit tree if he were to get a fake one. Then he asks me if my tree is pre-lit. SERIOUSLY? What the F are you doing when I speak. It's not like we are in person and you are staring at my ample bossom fantasizing about me. (hee hee, I said ample bossom). I was just out and out annoyed with him by that time and wanted to hang up the phone. He asked me a question about later in the week and I said, "I don't know." Not because I didn't know but because what was the fucking point in speaking if he wasn't going to listen. It's bad enough I hate the phone. I really hate talking on the phone (except with BFE and BFF because I have no other choice and I love them to death and hate to loose contact with them!)...so if I am going to deal with the Fing phone, LISTEN to me. Okay?

So, point one was the cluelessness. And, i think that is something I could deal with if all the other things were bugging me.

I mean seriously...taking me shopping and then while we are in the store saying, "oh, here I am taking you shopping and you don't like it." So not cool!

Forgetting my plans and/or trying to sabbotage them. So not cool!

Not listening to me. So not cool!

Am I really being picky or are these reasons for dismissal?