LT Relationship, day 3

The last week before he moved back to PR was wonderful. He was more loving and affectionate then he had been in the past. He wanted to spend time with me and postponed things to be with me. It felt really good and I was hopeful. But now, 3 days later, I fully expect him to let me down. I fully expect him not to keep up his end of the bargain and to keep in touch with me. I’m glad I bought the plane tickets and let him know when I did (last week), because if I had waited until now, I wouldn’t do it. He initially told me he’d need some time to get settled and to start to re-establish a relationship with his son. But, over the past few days, he hasn’t paid the attention to me that I wanted. He turned his phone from ring to vibrate while he was at his ex-wife’s house with his son. It is a shitty feeling to know that he will ignore me when he is with them. He ignored my text and my call. A half hour later, he had turned the ringer back on (or so I’m guessing from the type of ring I got) and answered the phone when I called just to tell me he’d call me back. He never bothered to answer my text. It makes me feel like an optional part of his life. So today, I will not text nor call. I plan to keep it up for the rest of the week. He needs to feel my absence and realize that he is being a jerk. If he stays away, I’m done with this. Pretty sad when after 1-1/2 years, it takes less than a week of LT relationship to destroy what we had. But then again, I’ve always questioned what we had….