Sunday, May 25, 2008

Four dates in five days

So, I've been on four dates, with four different guys, in five days. To see the first date - check out date number two with the Genius as outlined in the epilogue. I'm too lazy to write about it again.

So on Thursday, I was on date number two with...need a nickname here. Nick names are so hard to come up with. It's easier when my friends are around to do the job. The cold hearted bitch is so good at this! The fact that nothing stands out about his personality makes it even harder. Oh, Vanilla works. Plus, I like vanilla ice cream, so it isn't like it's derogatory. Vanilla was early and waiting for me at the pool table. He had already gotten a drink - shows confidence (+). I got a water. I needed to rehydrate as I was fresh from a work out - something C2 told me was not good. We played pool and at first I was very impressed and even intimidated by his playing. But it turned out that either he wasn't that good or he lowered his level of playing because I wont the second game. I was bored by the third game. I had only one beer and wasn't into playing. It's more fun with more people around or playing doubles. We had a nice time. No red flags. He was polite, payed for appetizers and the game. We decided to go out for sushi. He didn't mind when I was rude enough to take the call during dinner (+). I tried to keep it brief. He walked me to my car (+). A little kiss good night. No rockets, stares or excitement on my part. Probably because he's a little bit over weight. Not so much the body but in the face. I'm a face person. I like a guy with a pretty face and hard body. Lean is even good, as long as the face is pretty. But he doesn't have much of either. We had a lot of fun. We laughed alot. But there was no chemistry on my part - zip, zero, zilch, nada. Maybe it will build, maybe not. I'll have a couple more dates with him, but I'm afraid it will probably only lead to friendship. I know I'll like being his friend, though.

Friday night I had a first date with ADHD. I can't really think of a better name for him. He is definitely ADHD or gave that appearance, so works for me. I met him down town -where he lives, works and plays. He planned the whole evening (+). Traffic was non-existant, so I made it in record time. he wasn't there yet but I like wandering around the area - so I did. Then I called and he said he'd be right there. Hadn't expected me yet.
He shows up. Now why did I think he'd the 6' tall with big biceps. I gotta check my facts again. My brain must be fried. No...he was maybe 5'6" with average arms (-). But he did have a pretty face (+). He had a belly, too (-). He was very chatty - not sure if that one is a plus or a minus. I did have a lovely time with him. C2 aka my body guard was out of town for the weekend. He and I had a chat earlier about her wanting to keep tabs on me, how she likes to follow me around when I go on first dates, etc. Well, the funny part is while we were eating dinner, I saw my friend Amazon there. I couldn't believe my eyes. I had to walk over and say hi. We hadn't chatted in a bit due to life getting in the way. So of course later, she stopped at our table to say bye (i.e. check him out). Then, when we were walking back to the coffee shop, another friend of mine went jogging by and yelled hi to me. I hadn't seen her in almost a year! I told him I had spies watching me every where I went. I have to wonder what he was thinking. I left the date by 9:30. Had to get home to attend to the pup but also was just exhausted by his energy -the issue with being around someone ADHD. Yeah I'll go out with him again. He has a good sense of humor and is intersting. Hopefully he'll mellow, though.

Tonight I had the fourth date in five days. It was a first date and a horrible dud. Lasted about 2 hours. He wasn't all that interesting, handsome or even worth applying a nickname too. Hopefully he won't call.

Big BBQ tomorrow. Oh and then date 5 in 7 days with yet another guy. One of these guys has to be cute, right????? Ugh! Back to drooling over Rising Sun and Marley at the gym. Oh, this one new guy talked to me on Thursday. He was tall and relatively cute and even looked like he might be close to my age. Plus, he plays volleyball. Damn, can't remember his name. That's okay, guys seem to like airhead rather than brilliant (hee hee) women like me.

I'm tired. Sleepy time. Til we chat again!

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