Monday, April 26, 2010

PB follow up

I know I've been lame about the follow-up to the date with PB, but then again, so was the date...lame. It's not that PB isn't a half way decent guy who is somewhat interesting. There is just something that isn't "great" about the whole dating him. We walked around a local outdoor mall area where we met up. He told me about some running injury he sustained and the possible doctor's diagnosis. We joked around a bit. We stopped to get coffee (at his suggestion) and then he didn't pay for it. A lousy $2 coffee. just seemed lame to me that he didn't bother to pay for it. He did open and hold the door for me...so he has some culture. And, maybe it is just the age, but it just seemed cheap to me. We split dinner as well. After wards, he walked me to my car and kissed me good bye. No groping or tongue, just a nice sweet kiss, but nothing exciting.

He had told me he had friends in from out of town so he'd be busy on the weekend. But then he called me Saturday morning to let me know he was close by and could swing by and meet up for breakfast. It was early (like 8 a.m.) and I didn't bother to answer my phone because I was still in bed. And, even if I had, I wouldn't have wanted to meet him....drag my butt out of bed on my one day a week I can sleep in, just to pay for my own breakfast (which I don't normally eat). Nah. I'm just not that into him.

Then, on Tuesday evening he texted me to see if I wanted to get together "Wednesday" for a glass of wine because again, he'd be in the area. I texted back "tomorrow?", as in very short notice! And, told him I already had plans with my gf. He asked for later in the evening and again I was thinking... really...you want me to rush through my dinner and social engagement just to have one glass of wine with you that I probably have to pay for. Again, I don't find your company all that stimulating.

So as it turns out, on Thurs or Friday, he asked me to hang out this Wednesday. I'm not sure why I said yes. I guess I've come to realize he isn't all that interesting to me and doesn't seem to be growing on me. So this will probably be "third strike" and I'll let him know he's out.

I really hate dating.

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