What all men (and some women) need to know!

A friend of my has been stringing a girl along. Why you ask...I have not a clue, I tell you. But here is my response to his comment of "Ok, I don’t know what she wants to be right now, she only started to contact a couple of days ago."

What has she said/asked? You can’t be that “dumb” not to know what she is asking you and talking to you about. Why do you think she is contacting you?

I’m seeing you do stuff that guys have done to me and I seriously HATE them for it. I’d much rather have a guy tell me he’s not interested and move on. If you really don’t know and are really confused, that’s one thing. But even if that is the case, it is cruel to string her along even if you are unsure. You need to take the time alone (yes, you might possibly loose her forever) and figure out what the hell you want. I can’t tell you. She can’t tell you.

You need to take a long hard look at the situation. You told me she wanted you to spend too much time with her, etc. But from what I understand, you only spent one to two days a week with her. If that was too much, then you are definitely a LONG way off from a relationship with anyone. But, if you still care about her, want to be with her and that’s all you want to give her, then tell her. She might be willing to put up with that crap or might not even consider it crap.

If you are seeing someone else, you need to fess up to that, too. That’s not fair to anyone involved.

I have no idea what is going around in your head and I’m not sure if you know either. But, you need to figure it out and be honest with yourself and the girl about it. Stop dicking around with her if you have no intention of being with her. She’s been through enough shit in her life.

And, don’t go giving me the crap that she’s too good for you, you’re afraid you’ll her hurt her, blah, blah, blah. That’s crap and you and I both know that’s a line of shit people say instead of “I’m not all that into you.”

So, don’t hate me for giving it to you straight up. You know that’s me and it’s what I do to all my friends because
1. I don’t want my friends to get hurt.
2. I don’t want my friends to hurt other people
3. I believe friends need to be honest with each other, even if it hurts.
4. I believe you are far more honorable than every guy who’s ever pulled this crap on me and I can’t stand to see you do it to someone else.

So, grow a pair and get your act together!

That goes for all men and even some women out there. STOP playing games and be accountable for your actions.

That's all I've got to say about that!