get a clue

So I've gotten tired of the PB acts. I feel like this weird "back up plan" girl. And, I've no desire to be that person or really see PB again. There were several times I thought it was over and I wouldn't hear from him again and then *wham* out of the blue, he is back calling me sweetie or trying to take me out. I'm just bored with it. So today I wrote this to him:

HI PB

I want to be upfront with you because I think it is important you understand a few things. I pretty much figure that you really have no interest in me.

This is because of a string of things that you do including asking me if I am available and then never responding again (per this last string and several times before), not contacting me in between times of asking me to make plans with you, making plans and then forgetting, and just generally seeming like there is no interested.

Most women I know, feel pretty much the same way I do. The reason I'm telling you this is not because I want you to defend yourself. I am telling you this because each time I hear from you (as of late), I just shake my head. I know/think all I am is a back up plan for you and really have no interest in being that type of person for anyone. There has been several times that I thought for sure I'd never hear from you again and then, out of the blue there you are.

Any way, I'm truly not trying to be nasty. I just want you to understand for future reference. If you are truly interested in a person or want to maintain a friendship with someone, you really need to treat them with a bit more respect.

Cheers,
My name

It will be interesting to see if he responds. I'll keep you posted!